5 great places with a thriving singles culture

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Once upon a time, living single was looked upon with suspicion and even pity. Now, it’s more akin to a badge of honour: an emblem of freedom and choice.

Living single doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re not in a relationship. Rather, it’s choosing to look beyond the nuclear family thing in order to live alone, often in a community where doing so is the norm.

In such places, living single is starting to become a collective experience, with its own distinct identity.

Here are five countries around the world where, increasingly, flying solo in this way is not only accepted but positively embraced:


Single is the place to be in Japan right now: half the nation are currently single and over 25% are forecast to be “lifetime singles” by the year 2030. While this figure has been the source of some ominous rumblings about loneliness and the economy in the press (not to mention outrageously sexist comments by the Japanese PM), it is in fact A Very Good Thing for most involved.

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Take 41-year-old Miyoko Taniguchi, of the many ohitorisama (people who live and do things alone) behind Japan’s recent boom in single living. “It’s definitely more relaxing on one’s own,” says  Taniguchi, who – despite having a boyfriend – lives alone, and often chooses to drink alone in her local neighbourhood bar.

So-called “herbivore men” – painted as suave urbanites who have no interest in relationships – are also on the rise.

There are many reasons behind this shift. Craving freedom, both men and women  are opting to sidestep a negative gender dynamic that is inexorably tied to marriage in Japan, even now.  Other people divorce, or choose to live single but with relationships on the side.

Whatever the motivation for this super-solo society, there’s nothing bleak about it. In Japan, it’s completely normal for people dine out alone, sing karaoke alone and, increasingly, live alone. You might be single, you might not: but flying solo is a route to fulfilment that’s endorsed on many levels.


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The world’s single living capital, around 47% of households in Sweden have just one occupant; typically a child-free, single adult. The country’s high-tax welfare system means people can afford to live alone if they want to, and there’s great value attached to individual freedom and gender equality.

Rather than being a taboo therefore, being single is an entirely accepted state of affairs, and one that’s facilitated by Sweden’s comprehensive “cradle-to-coffin” support structure.

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“I’ve never had the feeling there was anything wrong with me for living solo,” says Andreas Sjöström, one of the many single Swedes living in city of Gothenburg. “I know plenty others who also live in my situation, women and men alike. Some single, some with partners but for whatever reason they have not moved in with each other yet.” 

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It’s this attitude that empowers people like Swede Maria Kjell, who refers to herself as “a professional single”.

“I enjoy being free,” she  tells The Local. “I can go wherever I want and do whatever I choose – I don’t have to ask anybody. If I’m in a relationship and it’s not really good, I always feel bad when I do things for myself.”


Ah, Canada. Lone rangers in this majestic land of beauty now outweigh all other kinds of households, with nearly 30% of Canadians choosing to live alone.

Rapid urbanisation and a rejection of the nuclear family model means more professionals are gravitating towards solo city life in places such as Toronto, Montreal and Vancouver.

People in this growing demographic may or may not be in relationships, but either way they tend to live alone minus children – yet in the vicinity of other like-minded solos.

“You can live alone but also be together with many people like you,” sociology professor and single living author Eric Klinenberg tells the Toronto Star. “Certain neighbourhoods where 60, 70 percent of households have just one person tend to be booming public areas with good restaurants and bars and cafés and bookshops. People can come together in public and live alone and be very social.”

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One such single dweller, Davide Mastracci, is pretty happy with his solo set-up in Toronto.

“When you live by yourself you basically have total control over your own place,” he tells the paper. “You can set it up however you want.”

South Korea

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The number of people living alone in South Korea has surged in recent years: one in four households are now single occupancy, and experts predict a rise to one in three by 2020.

As in other places with similar trends, this is partly down to higher life expectancy. But it’s also because of a growing population of young professionals who are getting married older or not at all, and choosing not to have kids.

This means they have greater disposable income for solo housing, and companies have responded to the jump in demand with furniture and gadgets designed for one-person spaces.

As in Canada, solo dwellers tend to concentrate in buzzing urban areas, which in turn feeds their single way of life.

“Singles tend to concentrate in areas where suitable accommodation and jobs are available, often leading to thriving and creative communities,” reads an article from South Korea’s Haps magazine. “In Seoul, for instance, fully half of all the singles in the entire city live in the narrow band around subway line 2, which is dense with cafes, restaurants and retail spaces as a result.”

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The magazine warns against romanticising the trend too much, however: “The reality is that it [single living] is sharply polarized along sex and income. In short, whereas most singles in their 30s to 40s are middle-class professional men, there are an equal number of women in their 60s to 80s living in abject poverty.”


Família comes first to many in Brazil but that hasn’t stopped it becoming one of the fastest growing nations for one-person households in the world.

While the breathless story of a Brazilian town of single women searching for men that surfaced a few years ago was quickly exposed as a myth, the fact remains that more and more people are choosing to live solo here (men and women alike).

As in other places, this sea change is fuelled by a booming economy, rapid urbanisation and women marrying less or later.

And it’s evidenced at all levels of society, right down to the sales of ready-made meals – “much favoured by lone rangers”, according to The Economist – which have more than doubled in sales to $1.2bn in five years alone.

And if the idea of munching away on a one-person meal seems to land on the gloomier end of singledom, it’s balanced by Brazil’s broad-ranging attitude to família.

“Everyone joining the regular family gatherings is considered as family, a blood relation is of lesser importance,” reads an explainer from aboutbrasil.com.

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According to the Huffington Post, this derives from “parentela”, a concept hailing from northeast Brazil in which large, intimate groups are held together around extended networks of families and friends.

All of this drives home the social benefits of single living, providing the glue through which Brazil’s solo living communities thrive.

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Photos: Shutterstock, Flash Pack, Alexandre Chambon and Emile-Victor Portenart on Unsplash



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