{"id":35049,"date":"2019-03-13T17:19:28","date_gmt":"2019-03-13T17:19:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/flashpacknew.wpengine.com\/?p=35049"},"modified":"2023-03-20T08:53:17","modified_gmt":"2023-03-20T08:53:17","slug":"power-vocabulary-positive-thinking","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.flashpack.com\/us\/solo\/wellness\/power-vocabulary-positive-thinking\/","title":{"rendered":"Positive thinking: These 3 simple hacks could be the key to happiness"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What if you possess the tools you need to reconstruct the way you think and create a positive mindset? Well, actually, you do. It\u2019s all about the words you use to express your experiences. Through conscious speech, you can fuel positive thinking and shift your mindset for the better.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is because language has an incredible ability to shape the way that we think. It acts as a framework through which we understand the events that take place around us. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As cognitive scientist <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/lera_boroditsky_how_language_shapes_the_way_we_think\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lena Boroditsky<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> says, \u201clanguage guides our reasoning about events and the tiny perceptual decisions that we make.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In fact, the power of language is so immense that it can completely alter the way we perceive things which we believe to be intrinsic, such as gender or time.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Words are crucially important in building a vocabulary of emotion, and the names we give to things can transform our perceptions. As entrepreneurial writer <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tonyrobbins.com\/mind-meaning\/change-your-words-change-your-life\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tony Robbins<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> says, \u201cthe words we attach to our experience <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">become <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">our experience.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In essence, it feeds our entire outlook on life. Through positive affirmations, we can actively shape a feel-good mentality and shift our entire perspective.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are a few ways in which you can question the words you use, and create a positive mindset as a result:<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><em>Read more: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.flashpack.com\/solo\/relationships\/making-friends-meeting-people-app\/\">It&#8217;s normal to feel insecure about making friends, but here&#8217;s a quick fix<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-35053\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/happy1.jpg\" alt=\"Excited lady: positive speech feeds positive thinking\" width=\"1280\" height=\"720\" \/><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Anxiety \u2013 or excitement? <\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What happens when you feel anxious? Your heart beats faster, you become suddenly restless, you start feeling butterflies. These characteristics bear an uncanny resemblance to the experience of feeling excited. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And when you look closer at the phenomenon of excitement, you\u2019ll see that it\u2019s a positive interpretation of the same physiological responses. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What this shows us is that our mindset plays a huge role in selecting the words we use to describe our experiences. And the words we use, in turn, strengthen our perceptions. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you\u2019re feeling stressed or anxious, writer <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.womankindmag.com\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Antonia Case<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> suggests a simple exercise of \u201crebranding anxiety\u201d. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Instead of calling it anxiety, call it excitement instead. You\u2019d be amazed at how one simple word can shift your perception and channel your energy in a different, more positive way.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><em>Read more: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.flashpack.com\/solo\/careers\/myth-changing-careers-in-your-40s\/\">The big myth about changing careers in your 40s<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-35074\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/happy4.jpg\" alt=\"People chatting: fuel positive thinking through breaking free from labels\" width=\"1280\" height=\"720\" \/><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. The limitations of labels<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s appealing to categorise ourselves and put ourselves in neat boxes. From psychology tests to Buzzfeed quizzes, humans are driven by an innate curiosity to understand and brand ourselves accordingly. Labels shape our identities and affirm a sense of selfhood. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yet we should be cautious of falling victim to the psychological power of labels. While sentences such as \u201cI\u2019m an anxious person\u201d or \u201cI\u2019m a shy person\u201d might help us feel like we know who we are, they actually create more harm than good in terms of personal growth. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In fact, this kind of mentality suggests an absolutist view when it comes to our development. It closes us off from the possibilities of growth and potential, hampering positive thinking.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As Naomi Teeter of <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.theinspiredtransformation.com\/why-its-bad-to-label-yourself\/\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Inspired Transformation<\/span><\/i><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> says, \u201cLabels create our identity. They shape our destiny. They limit what we allow ourselves to become.\u201d By defying our labels, we open ourselves up to a growth-driven mentality where nothing is set in stone and everything is to gain. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So instead of saying \u201cI\u2019m a shy person\u201d, think \u201chow can I push myself to expand my growth?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Rather than believing that you\u2019re a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.success.com\/your-words-are-powerful-8-positive-speaking-habits-to-build-yourself-up\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lazy person<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> because you didn\u2019t meet that deadline in time, ask yourself \u201chow can I organise my time more effectively in the future?<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><em>Read more: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.flashpack.com\/solo\/travel\/how-to-break-comfort-zone\/\">Farewell comfort zone: a 5-step strategy to shaking up your life<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-35060\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/happy2.jpg\" alt=\"Mantras and reflection can fuel positive thinking and speech\" width=\"1280\" height=\"720\" \/><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Mantras fuel positive thinking<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mantra <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">is a Sanskrit word. It originates from an ancient Vedic practice of repeating sacred utterances to effect psychological powers. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">From Hinduism and Buddhism to Pinterest and Instagram, mantras have travelled down the ages and across a multitude of cultures. Why are they so enduringly popular? Because they have the ability to conjure an alternate reality, in a beautifully quotable soundbite. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Through the medium of words, mantras allow us to imagine ourselves as we would like to be \u2013 to dwell on multiple possibilities and open up to change. By repeating mantras and absorbing their wisdom, we can effectively rewire our thought patterns, shifting <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mindbodygreen.com\/0-8188\/5-ancient-mantras-that-will-transform-your-life.html\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">negative habits into positive<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">On that note, here are 5 motivational mantras to fuel your positive thinking:<\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t wish for it, work for it<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Failure is success in progress<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Great things never came from comfort zones<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Big journeys begin with small steps<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Respond to every call that excites your spirit <\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ready to transform your life through the simple power of language? The journey begins right here.<\/span><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h3>Feeling inspired? Fuel your positive thinking with these 3 great adventures:<\/h3>\n<p><b>Immerse yourself in the coastal charms of Croatia<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-28539\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/seakayak-dubrovnik-itinerary5.jpg\" alt=\"Sea kayaking in Dubrovnik\" width=\"1280\" height=\"720\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s nothing like a sweeping adventure through Croatia to foment a positive emotional connection with yourself. This trip will see you journey from Split to Dubrovnik, via the gushing rapids of River Cetina.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"\/adventure-trips\/coastal-croatia-small-group-tour-solo-travellers\/\">Book your place<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Experience tropical beauty in Thailand<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-30525\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/Highlight1.1-1.jpg\" alt=\"Cliffs of Krabi\" width=\"860\" height=\"690\" \/><\/p>\n<p>From Bangkok to the paradise sands of Krabi, discover a land of lush beauty and high adventure in Thailand. This adventure will leave you reeling with feel-good vibes.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"\/adventure-trips\/thailand-small-group-tour-solo-travellers\/\">Find out more<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Embrace rugged adventure in Sri Lanka<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-32229\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/ItineraryTemplate.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1280\" height=\"720\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Our epic Sri Lanka itinerary will see you venture into the breathtaking highlands, rappel down a waterfall in the rainforest and unwind on the dreamiest beaches imaginable.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"\/adventure-trips\/rugged-sri-lanka-small-group-tour-solo-travellers\/\">Check it out<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What if you possess the tools you need to reconstruct the way you think and&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":57,"featured_media":83121,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[9041,9030],"tags":[678,689,5115,434,5114,5116,5111,5113,497,5112,973],"class_list":["post-35049","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-mental-health","category-wellness","tag-anxiety","tag-excitement","tag-growth-mentality","tag-happiness","tag-inspirational-quotes","tag-labels","tag-language","tag-mantras","tag-motivation","tag-positive-speech","tag-positive-thinking"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.flashpack.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35049","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.flashpack.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.flashpack.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.flashpack.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/57"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.flashpack.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35049"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.flashpack.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35049\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.flashpack.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/83121"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.flashpack.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35049"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.flashpack.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=35049"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.flashpack.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35049"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}