{"id":47573,"date":"2019-04-24T14:14:13","date_gmt":"2019-04-24T13:14:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/flashpacknew.wpengine.com\/?p=47573"},"modified":"2023-05-12T10:26:21","modified_gmt":"2023-05-12T09:26:21","slug":"love-airports-solo-traveller","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.flashpack.com\/us\/solo\/travel\/love-airports-solo-traveller\/","title":{"rendered":"Why I love airports as a solo traveller"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><em>Airports, in the eyes of many solo travellers, are at best an inconvenience, at worst a hellhole full of old people being transported on beeping golf carts. To Andrew Dickens, however, they are a place of wonder.\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe flight\u2019s at 10.15, so I reckon we can get to the airport at 8.30. Through security by 9, grab a drink, boarding at quarter to. Synchronise watches&#8230; now.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Sound familiar? Is this your friends? Is this <em>you<\/em>? Well, let me tell you, this kind of talk makes my skin crawl.<\/p>\n<p>Some people fixate on a flight\u2019s check-in closing time. The plot their journey with all the precision of a covert ops mission in a rogue state. The mission&#8217;s aim: to spend the minimum time possible in the airport.<\/p>\n<p>Not me, friend.<\/p>\n<p>I look at the check-in <em>opening<\/em> time. I aim to maximise the length of my airport experience. I work out how early I can get there without having to wait, bags in hand, for the desk to open, like an alcoholic waiting for the bolt to side on a pub door. For me, an airport is a happy place.<\/p>\n<h3>A high high<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-47847 size-full\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/catch-me-if-you-can_3GcvGn-1.jpg\" alt=\"leonardo di caprio loving airports in catch me if you can\" width=\"1920\" height=\"1080\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Unlike most things in my life, this isn\u2019t fuelled by anxiety; it isn\u2019t an exaggerated fear of missing my flight. It\u2019s because I love airports. Like, I <em>love<\/em> them. I love flying, too \u2013 give me a wine-, nibbles- and movie-filled long-haul flight any time (no, really, please do) &#8211; but still I feel my delicate heart sink when the departures board flips to \u2018Go to Gate\u2019 and I\u2019m forced to say goodbye to the terminal.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a grown-up Disneyland for me.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m aware that this is not completely normal, so I\u2019ve been trying to work out where it comes from. It\u2019s a feeling, but feelings are caused by real stuff. It\u2019s not the airport putting a spell on me.<\/p>\n<h3>Going places<\/h3>\n<p>I think the first and probably most obvious appeal is that an airport means a flight and, as mentioned, I bloody love a flight. The longer the better, as long as I\u2019ve got enough legroom\/food\/booze\/books\/films.<\/p>\n<p>Then you\u2019ve got where the flight is going, which, unless you&#8217;re being extradited or something, is rarely a bad place. It\u2019s either somewhere far away or it\u2019s home \u2013 and these are both excellent destinations.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><em>Read more:<\/em><\/strong> <a class=\"yoast-link-suggestion__value\" href=\"https:\/\/www.flashpack.com\/solo\/wellness\/13-things-when-40\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">13 things you stop caring about when you turn 40<\/a><\/p>\n<p>So, when I step into an airport, there\u2019s an automatic thrill associated with what\u2019s to come. It&#8217;s like when you knock off work for Christmas and you\u2019ve got a couple of days before the main event. You can relax and do whatever the hell you like, and nobody expects you to be available for work &#8211; and you&#8217;ve still got the best bit to come.<\/p>\n<h3>Flying solo<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-47833 size-full\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/flash-gordon_cGJhMP-1.jpg\" alt=\"flash gordon flying solo\" width=\"1920\" height=\"1080\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m particularly enamoured when I\u2019m travelling alone because when you&#8217;re a solo traveller the &#8216;doing what you like&#8217; part gets cranked up to 11. If I\u2019m lucky, I\u2019ll have three hours of high quality \u2018me time\u2019 before a flight. Until that board flips, I get to choose what I do and where I go.<\/p>\n<p>I can spend that time exploring these wondrous places, which range from one-caf\u00e9 tin sheds to mighty citadels like Heathrow.<\/p>\n<p>I can read a book or magazine. If I\u2019ve forgotten my book or magazine, which happens frequently, I can browse a bookshop and buy something else, perhaps something edging outside of my literary comfort zone, or even outside of my language (assuming its got lots of nice pictures).<\/p>\n<p>I can go airport shopping in actual physical shops, or at least look around those shops doing an unconvincing impression of someone with money before settling on a fridge magnet or a bag of sweets with a rude-sounding name from duty free.<\/p>\n<p>I can think. Yes, <em>think<\/em>. Use my tiny brain to reflect and analyse and imagine and decide. I rarely think these days. If my brain suddenly finds itself unemployed, it commands my right hand to reach for my phone or the TV remote. In an airport, that reflex is dulled.<\/p>\n<p>I can sit and drink alone. I can sit and drink <em>beer<\/em> alone. I can eat alone. I can pay slightly over the odds for these things alone. Except I\u2019m not really alone, because airports are full of people. And people are another reason I love airports.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><em>Read more: <\/em><\/strong><a class=\"yoast-link-suggestion__value\" href=\"https:\/\/www.flashpack.com\/solo\/travel\/travel-tips\/get-cheap-flights\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">How to get cheap flights: Game-changing tips by Jack of Jack&#8217;s Flight Club<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>People-watching<\/h3>\n<p>People at airports are in a heightened state. Each person has a story. Nearly every one of them is doing something they rarely do, going somewhere new and\/or exciting. Their moods are different, from each other\u2019s and from their norms. They\u2019ve probably got new clothes on and a new haircut. Body parts have been waxed.<\/p>\n<p>(That&#8217;s another great thing, by the way: what to wear to the airport. It&#8217;s comfort all the way, baby. Slouch-wear heaven. Not-so-smart casual. I once saw Karen Gillan at the luggage carousel wearing a black and white onesie &#8211; that to me was a green light to buy the full range of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.uniqlo.com\/uk\/en\/men\/bottoms\/trousers-chinos-sweatpants\/joggers-sweatpants\">Uniqlo joggers and sweatpants<\/a>.)<\/p>\n<p>I like to sit and guess their story. A couple&#8217;s first holiday together? A couple&#8217;s 100th holiday together? A couple&#8217;s last holiday together?<\/p>\n<p>If I want villains in my tale, then I tend to glare at people with clearly-too-large items of hand luggage. Or at groups of teenagers sitting or lying on the floor \u2013 the very worst bit of floor they could have chosen \u2013 asking myself, &#8220;Why? For the love of humanity, <em>why<\/em>?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Sorry. Small bugbear there.<\/p>\n<p>In short: people are the greatest form of entertainment.<\/p>\n<h3>A slight fear of flying<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-47840 size-full\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/airplane_390604-1.jpg\" alt=\"ted stryker in airplane fear of flying\" width=\"1920\" height=\"1080\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Another reason I love airports is that I have a teensy weensy fear of flying.<\/p>\n<p>In my mid-20s, when my mind was in a far worse place, this fear was fairly pronounced. These days, it&#8217;s a mild sense of apprehension during take-off. But it&#8217;s just enough to build anticipation levels similar to those shortly before going on a zip wire.<\/p>\n<h3>Witchcraft<\/h3>\n<p>Then there\u2019s the airport itself. There is, in my opinion, a genuine magic to it that inspires a sense of wonder. I know I said the airport doesn&#8217;t put a spell on me, but it kind of does. Not a literal hocus pocus Harry Potter spell. The magic is in the mystery of the place.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s its off-limits areas \u2013 the vast majority of an airport is closed to the likes of you and me. There&#8217;s its army of workers, its actual army in some cases, many of whom we never see.<\/p>\n<p>Like the aeroplane itself, these rooms, these buildings, these people, are the machinery that makes the 10 per cent we experience function.<\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;re responsible for making sure that we \u2013 and our luggage \u2013 get from A to B safely via the medium of powered flight (which still feels like witchcraft to me). We see so little of what happens that it allows the imagination to go nuts. And nuts imaginations are the best. See Die Hard 2 for conclusive proof.<\/p>\n<h3>Embrace the airport<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-47854 size-full\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/this-is-spinal-tap_HM2dgl-1.jpg\" alt=\"derek smalls security scene this is spinal tap\" width=\"1920\" height=\"1080\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Now, I am fully aware that flying is not good for the environment and, if at all practical and affordable (big if in the UK, that one), I&#8217;ll use less damaging forms of transport. But as it stands, flying is the only way to get to a lot of places, so airports are \u2013 and will be forever \u2013 a part of many people&#8217;s lives.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re flying somewhere and aren\u2019t a) a smuggler, b) taking part in an actual covert ops mission, or c) a bird, then airports are unavoidable. So why treat them as a nuisance? As some hurdle to be overcome on your way to a nice tan or a date with some tropical wildlife?<\/p>\n<p>I say, embrace airports and all they have to offer. Except for the customs officers \u2013 that\u2019s just a shortcut to a cavity search.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Airports, in the eyes of many solo travellers, are at best an inconvenience, at worst&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":78786,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[9033,9029],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-47573","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-solo-travel-tips","category-travel"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.flashpack.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47573","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.flashpack.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.flashpack.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.flashpack.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.flashpack.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=47573"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.flashpack.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47573\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.flashpack.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/78786"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.flashpack.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=47573"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.flashpack.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=47573"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.flashpack.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=47573"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}