Men are “happier with their bromance” than their romance

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Believe it or not, the answer to true happiness doesn’t involve a romantic relationship but actually the relationship with your best mate, according to a US study by social scientists at the Universities of Winchester and Bedfordshire.

The study interviewed 30 heterosexual male sports science students.

Each of the respondents had enjoyed at least one ‘bromance’ and one romance in the last year.

Researchers found that every man claimed they had a friend with whom they engaged in “no boundaries” behaviour – sharing secrets, expressing love, sleeping in the same bed as on occasions.

What’s more, they gained more emotional satisfaction from this platonic pal than they did any romantic relationship with women.

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29 out of the 30 men even claimed they’d cuddled their BFF at some point, while 28 of the group admitted they would prefer to talk to them over personal matters and conflicts than they would someone they were dating. One interviewee said: “If I found a lump on my testicle, I’d talk to [the BFF] rather than my girlfriend.”

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So, while you may think of bromance as fun, or relate it to some on-screen japes – JD and Turk from Scrubs, for example, or Chandler and Joey from Friends (surely the ultimate purveyors of guy-time), or even non-fictional pairings, such as former US President Barack Obama and Joe Biden, who’ve been known to be smitten with one another for a few touching photo calls – a bromance may be one of the most important relationships you’ll ever forge.

As the study itself mentions, the concept of male companionship is nothing new – not least in US political circles – with George Washington known to write endearing letters to other men, and Abraham Lincoln once sharing a bed with a male friend for several years. Pillow talk or not, mind, a close-knit friendship with a best pal will be there with you right to the end. As one participant put it during his interview for the study. “A bromance can last a lifetime.”

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